#231 When everything is urgent

ByLukas

When everything is urgent, how do we know what to do first?

One solution is adding more nuance:

What’s the most urgent?

What’s the most important?

Breathing is urgent.

A crying child is urgent.

A toilet visit can be urgent.

Sending that email out tonight right before bed instead of tomorrow, maybe not so much?

Here’s the important question:

If you’re going to prioritize the urgent matters anyway, why stress yourself out by calling everything urgent in the first place?

Making everything urgent devalues truly urgent matters.

Because when everything is urgent, nothing is urgent anymore.

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    I don’t practice the guitar so I can show the world how well I play.

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    #123 Never again

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    What gets you going – and what keeps you going?

    Pain. Pleasure. Usually, a combination of both.

    I like being disciplined – it gives me pleasure.

    I also know very well that I don’t want to go back to jumping from one project to another, giving up before reaching any meaningful level of skill or results, and ending up frustrated with myself – the thought alone is painful.

    The pain often gets you going, later to be joined by pleasure in a cocktail of motivation, discipline, and persistence.

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