#229 What are you striving for?

ByLukas
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Am I running to get in better shape or to get distracting thoughts out of my head?

Am I going out to enjoy being with friends or to forget my worries?

Am I writing to grow an audience or to process my own emotions?

What am I striving for?

Your answers may vary from day to day. There are no right or wrong answers anyway.

But that doesn’t mean it isn’t useful to understand why you behave the way you do.

Maybe it even makes you curious about why others behave the way they do, too.

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