#49 Moderate to get more

ByLukas
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A neurotransmitter that once helped us evolve and motivated us to go out and explore the world now has us glued to screens and plates filled with sugary food.

Dopamine tells us not just to eat, but to eat more.

Not just to read a useful article, but click more headlines.

Swipe through more videos and photos.

Watch more episodes on Netflix.

Yet, when I interrupt the dopamine reward loop and resist the need for more, I’m pulled back into the now, and strangely enough, I actually see more. Hear more. Feel more.

Sometimes, to get more, you need to moderate.

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