#119 Make anything a fulfilling skill

ByLukas
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Learning a skill isn’t so much about getting better – that’s just a side effect.

It’s about discovering new ways of doing the same thing – just because you can, and just because you’re curious.

Doing the same thing, this time precisely – then doing it again, not precisely at all.

Doing the same thing, this time deliberately, carefully thinking about every step – then doing it again, not thinking about any steps at all.

When you stay curious, you learn to discover nuances you couldn’t perceive before.

When you stay curious, you learn to be deliberate until you can be intuitive.

When you stay curious, you learn to become less blind to what’s already here.

And when you stay curious, you realize there’s not much more to a fulfilling life than sculpting away, day by day – and anything can be a fulfilling skill.

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    You lose – you keep breathing.

    You feel good – you keep breathing.

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    #214 Who’s in charge right now?

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    Habit hardliner. Epicurean. Ruthless achiever. Compassionate pushover.

    I identify with all of the above, my friend. And even though they can all be positive, I’m pretty good at letting those qualities shine in the wrong situations.

    The habit hardliner over-disciplining themselves and those around them.

    The epicurean making indulgent food decisions every day.

    The ruthless achiever neglecting their family.

    The compassionate guy being a pushover in business negotiations.

    So more out of necessity than ambition, I started asking myself: Who’s in charge right now?

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    It’s insightful. Not always fun. But insightful.

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    Right here, right now: who’s in charge?

    Maybe you’ve let some of your qualities shine in the wrong situations too.

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    #173 Are errors truly errors?

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    I can believe I’ve published the perfect insight – until I narrate the podcast version a couple of weeks later and suddenly notice subtle typos and, sometimes, logical flaws. The typos and flaws were always there – but did I make a mistake earlier? 

    I can believe I’ve nailed this yoga pose – until, during one session, I suddenly sense some tension in my neck I had never noticed before. The tension was always there – did I make a mistake earlier? 

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